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02 April 2005 @ 12:49 am
Gotta sleep, for I will probably stay up all night tomorrow for the tourney. I don't really think I've ever pulled an all-nighter without resting later in the day. Eh, I might be able to stick in a nap somewhere. I don't know.

Am I being self-absorbed if I feel hurt for not being included in things my friends are doing?
Same story, different iteration.soygirl on April 2nd, 2005 04:16 pm (UTC)
To answer your question, no.

I feel like poo when my friends do things without telling me, and I always feel like they're conspiring against me :( I also have a complex about asking if I can tag along anywhere uninvited.
Jeffrey Carl Fadenjeffreyatw on April 2nd, 2005 06:09 pm (UTC)
Yeah. I often feel as if they've specifically left me out when they go in big groups somewhere or even recap an event, talking about what everyone did (and I was there). I try to "keep tabs" on what's up so they are, like, forced to include me, but still, they seem to forget about me or think I'm busy or something like that.

They might as well just out and tell me they don't want me around, because actions speak louder than words.
asgio on April 2nd, 2005 07:12 pm (UTC)
definitely know that feeling, but maybe you arent asking whats going on as much? if youre just listening to whats going on as opposed to really sticking yourself out there and saying "im interested in this, too" they may not have realized it
Jeffrey Carl Fadenjeffreyatw on April 2nd, 2005 07:32 pm (UTC)
Interesting you'd say I'm not asking what's going on enough. I ask every day. I'd think maybe I'm asking TOO much. I dunno.