Yes, I volunteer to help people out. Yes, I like driving. Yes, I like paying for people. It's in my nature to be generous, since I was brought up that way and it makes me feel good.
I don't need gratitude. I DON'T NEED GRATITUDE. But I'd rather get nothing than just more requests for me to do this and that, and constant misunderstandings about what I'm doing with my life.
And I'm sure it goes without saying that the closer people are to me, the more it hurts when they treat me this way. I'd rather be neglected then cater to every will of people and then be ridiculed, or burdened even further.
Who wants to pick ME up to do something for a change? I don't think that's ever happened before.